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"Don't ask, don't tell" hype is everywhere!

December 13, 2010

Don't ask, don't tell hype is everywhere!

When DADT was passed into law, people were outraged. They were concerned about the impact on readiness, morale and welfare. In the years since DADT (and the years before it), we have served alongside homosexual Soldiers. Sure, they couldn't admit who they were. It was a big "secret" that everyone knew. In all those years we shared open-bay showers, we shared rooms, we ate together, went to the field together and occupied tactical vehicles together. 

By now I think most Soldiers have realized the impact, or lack thereof, that gay Soldiers have had on our organizations and in our formations.  Society has shifted in the new generation and come to accept cultures and lifestyles that were taboo twenty years ago. In civilian life most of us know someone or are related to someone who is gay. That was always true, it was just never talked about. As we, as a people, learn to accept our gay friends and or family members, we begin to also accept it in others we don't know too.

There are and will continue to be Soldiers who are not yet accustomed to the thought of equality for homosexuals. The same is true for other factors that engender hate I.E. racists, sexists, religious bias etc...a small percentage of hold-outs will remain in the years to come, but the Army will ensure proper training is conducted and monitored to bring the masses on board.  This is no big deal, just as DADT was no big deal. The impact on readiness, morale and welfare will be nil. 

I believe in the sanctity of marriage between a man and woman, I am a Christian and I practice values consistent with those beliefs. I am one other thing though - an American! America is the embodiment of acceptance. We represent every culture and lifestyle in the world. We live mostly peaceful as one nation with one common goal. We will adapt to this change - if and when it comes.

Gay men and women serve, fight and die alongside us. I'm okay with them not having to hide or lie about who they are.

Until next time,

Terry

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  • Brittany

    Dec 13, 2010 10:52 PM

    LONG TIME NO SEE... lol i saw ur name n pic and def recognized you... how are things? I see you are 1SG huh? congrats. :)

    p.s. i agree that gay men and women should be able to serve openly but it would cost the army a lot, they shouldnt be allowed to openly shower with people of the same sex, cause then they might be checkin others out. Making the workplace uncomfortable is a form of sexual harassment even if unintentional! Come on Hynee LOL


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    • Terrence Hynes

      Dec 13, 2010 10:57 PM

      We already do it Brit. Only difference is you would know, rather than make false judgments based on theory. Doing good, hope all is well with you too!


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    • Jeremy

      Dec 14, 2010 7:55 PM

      Brit:

      Someone staring you down in the shower could be straight or gay. Regardless of their orientation, any threatening or unwelcome stares constitutes harassment, and can not /will not be tolerated. That doesn't change if DADT is gone. No one has the right to make you feel uncomfortable in a vulnerable situation.


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  • Sherrie

    Dec 14, 2010 3:51 PM

    I know I'm one here in Mo. to try and help get passed by calling and telling that missouri supports the DADT, and the president on the issue. The few that have went to serve should have the right!!!taccere


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  • Sherrie

    Dec 14, 2010 3:58 PM

    I feel discrimination is an important issue. I feel any man or woman has the right to not be discriminatied against. I'm so happy that people will be who the need to be, and the president feels the same way.


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